By Dre from Jerz | Featured Contributor
As a man in his early 40’s, coping with bipolar disorder and manic depression has been a major struggle. But through an open understanding and a willingness to learn, mental health issues can become manageable.
It all started in my late twenties. I was sitting on my twin-sized bed listening to one of my favorite hip hop CD’s. After a breakup with a young lady at the time and in between menial jobs, my mind was in a fragile state. I would play this particular CD on repeat from evening to morning. Not realizing it at the time, but internally I had snapped to the point my brainwaves shifted into an altered phase.
Later that morning, I began acting quite strange and started seeing things that weren’t there. I remember going to a golf course where I had worked off-and-on as a caddie during the summer. Someone there who I was familiar with offered me a cigarette even though I wasn’t really a smoker. Almost immediately afterwards, for some odd reason, I left the golf course and drove home. From there on, life changed for the worse; things went downhill at that point.
Heading into my thirties, I began to develop severe mood swings. Add in some delusions of grandeur and a mild case of schizophrenia, and you get a bad mix for a mental cocktail. The stories would play out in my mind that either I was famous or that I knew someone famous. Like clockwork, I had suffered from many anxiety attacks which warped into manic episodes. Every other year I would have to be hospitalized—but luckily—only for a short period of time.
It appeared that I was fighting an uphill battle with invisible ‘demons,’ but my belief in a higher source kept me going. Even till this day, my ‘demons’ tend to rear their ugly heads and constantly test my faith. But now, I am attempting to educate myself as well as better understand this mental affliction. With the help of my family and staying on top of my medications, I will either defeat or at least keep this unseen monster at bay.
Keep in mind that my story has less to do with the negative effects of hip hop music and more so with where I was at mentally during my youth. If you are also having a difficult time dealing with your mental health, you too can find a solid piece of mind.
Determination and a strong will to persevere is required. Don’t give up on your journey to find inner peace—you owe yourself that much.
I hope this helps anyone who reads this…
Some helpful mental health resources:
Mental Health National Helpline
Mental Illness Information & Support
◊
Author Bio
Dre from Jerz™ is a creative who writes song lyrics, stories, and poetry in his spare time. He is a blogger at Rhorie Drey Fashion Blog as well as a radio personality on Stationhead.
Blog: Rdfb.net
Merchandise: Rdhef.biz
If you would like your work to be considered for publication on PhoebeMD.com, click here for more information.
In 1993, when I was 32 years, I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and put on lithium carbonate 300mg three times a day. In 2019, when I was 58 years old, I was told I was miss diagnosed and I had post traumatic stress syndrome. So basically the drug affected my left kidney and I have 30% kidney function. That made me very unhappy, but it was too late and the damage was done and can’t be rectified. I guess bipoar disorder and the diagnosis for it has changed over the last 28 years?? I never felt right on the drug and my highs and lows were just the ordinary highs and lows of a normal person, if one of those actually exist in our society. I didn’t have spending sprees or promiscuous sex everyday or at all. Take care and be safe. Love your blog.🙏👌
Thanks. Appreciate you sharing.
This is so insightful. I live with Mixed Bipolar Disorder myself. I have also experienced psychosis, and a cousin of mine has Schizophrenia. My heart goes out to you. I am so proud of the way you are handling your mental health and using your platform go help others. 👏
~Jaymie
I appreciate the positive words! Although it’s not an easy task, it’s quite important to maintain an upbeat outlook and stay encouraged throughout the entire process. May you find you find happiness on your journey. Take care.
Thank you! That would be more than enough of a blessing. Keep telling your story.