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Relaxation Techniques for Better Sleep

Do you ever have trouble falling asleep at night? If so, you are not alone. For many, relaxation before bedtime may mean watching TV or scrolling through social media on the smartphone. But this does little to reduce the damaging health effects of chronic stress and can actually harm the quality of your sleep. Bedtime relaxation exercises, on the other hand, are designed to help your body let go of tension, causing you to fall asleep faster while experiencing deeper and better quality sleep. Combined with effective stress management skills, you end up equipped with a powerful, stress-busting combo. This article guides you through three essential relaxation techniques designed to help you sleep better and wake up more refreshed.

– Part I –
Stress Response vs. Relaxation Response

– The Stress Response – 

This is what happens when you are feeling stressed. The “fight-or-flight” or stress response is a reaction to perceived danger, which causes your body to experience the following:

• Pounding and racing heartrate
• Fast and shallow breathing
• Rising blood pressure
• Tight and tensed muscles
• Anxiety and inability to think clearly

– The Relaxation Response – 

In opposition to the stress response is the relaxation response. This is what happens when you do relaxation techniques. This response puts your body at rest and allows you to experience the following:

• Slow and steady heartrate
• Deeper and more even breaths
• Normalized and stable blood pressure
• Loosened and relaxed muscles
• Mental clarity due to improved oxygen delivery to the brain

– Part II –
Tips for Successful Relaxation

To get the maximum benefit from these relaxation techniques, try to do the following:

Wear loose, comfortable clothing.
Find a quiet space where you won’t be interrupted for at least 15 minutes.
Turn the lights down.
If there is unavoidable noise, put on some background music or nature sounds.
• Turn off the phone and give yourself permission to devote some time to self-care.
Sit or lie down in a comfortable position, with legs uncrossed and extended.
• Try each relaxation technique for at least a few days to give yourself a chance to find the one that is right for you.
• Don’t feel discouraged if you don’t achieve a given result the first few times.
• Remember that you are practicing a skill – like playing the piano. The more you practice, the more effective your relaxation skills become.

– Part III –
Relaxation Techniques for Better Sleep

– 1st Technique –
Simple Guided Relaxation

Relaxation Techniques for better sleep

This audio-guided relaxation experience incorporates a variety of techniques such as guided imagery, deep breathing, and progressive muscle relaxation.

Time needed: 8 minutes

What to do:

  1. Get in a comfortable position
  2. Put on headphones (if needed)
  3. Click the “Calm” icon

– 2nd Technique –
Full Progressive Muscle Relaxation

This technique works by increasing your awareness of the muscle tension that occurs during stress, and then forcing yourself to release that tension.

Time needed: 15 minutes (30 minutes if using audio)

Audio-Guided Experience: 

Relaxation Techniques for better sleep

What to do:

  1. Sit back or lie down in a comfortable position. Close your eyes. Take a few slow, deep breaths.
  2. Beginning at your face, notice how your muscles feel. Are they tense, or relaxed?
  3. Tightly tense the muscles in your face by squeezing your eyes shut and tightening your lips.
  4. Hold this for 5-10 seconds.
  5. Now, release the tension from your face, allowing it to relax. Notice how relaxed they feel.
  6. Move down your body and repeat this process with each group of muscles.

Relaxation Techniques for better sleep

– 3 –

Visualization is a powerful tool that involves using mental imagery to achieve a more relaxed state of mind. It is similar to daydreaming, in which you simply use the power of your imagination.

Time needed: 10 minutes

Audio-Guided Experience: 

Relaxation Techniques for better sleep

What to do:

  1. Close your eyes and imagine a restful place–such as a dock on a quiet lake.
  2. Picture it as vividly as you can—everything you can see, hear, smell, taste, and feel. Incorporate as many sensory details as possible:

• See the sun setting over the water
• Hear the birds singing
• Smell the pine trees
• Feel the cool water on your bare feet
• Taste the fresh, clean air

  1. Enjoy the feeling of your worries drifting away as you slowly explore your restful place.
  2. When you are ready, slowly open your eyes and come back to the present


Now that you are aware of these three relaxation techniques for better sleep, I hope you will try them out and see what works for you.


Want to keep this information handy for future reference?
Below is a printer-friendly handout with all these techniques:


Relaxation Techniques Handout

*The information presented in “Relaxation Techniques for Better Sleeo” can be found in Being Empowered for a Healthy Heart: A personal guide to taking control of your health while living with chronic conditions, by Phoebe Chi, MD, MPH.

Phoebe Chi, MD, MPH
Phoebe Chi, MD, MPH

As a physician, author, and managing editor of PhoebeMD: Medicine + Poetry, Dr. Chi aims to inspire, educate, and empower the reader community. She is the author of Being Empowered for a Healthy Heart: A personal guide to taking control of your health while living with chronic conditions, founder and designer at Pendants for a Cause, and a minion to her feline companion, Samantha.

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  1. Really enjoyed the article and think children should learn different kinds of relaxation techniques in school! It’s so important in this fast developing world! 🙏🙏🙏

  2. I absolutely love these techniques! I began doing them about a year or so ago for anxiety and they have helped tremendously. It’s always great to be reminded of just how powerful a few minutes of relaxation can be. Awesome post! 😃

  3. I am trying to learn to live with PTSI without meds (which leave me feeling like a zombie). In time, I will most definitely be incorporating these techniques in the daily course of action. Thank you so much.

  4. Semi-Tantric yoga breathing techniques – usually at full recline with hands folded over solar plexus – which helps monitor both inhalation and exhalation and gives them something to do while I count – taking in a slowly measured full inhale by nasal passage until the chest cavity fills and pushes up the belly with a diaphragmic distension (is that a term?) during a long)ish) four count. Hold breath for another four count and then rapidly exhale via the mouth, sometimes adding a slight push to the plexus to help expel all air, hold another four count, then breath again. Repeat repeatedly (although sometimes I extend the counts – in, hold – and out – by increments to as many as 15 counts. A great stress reliever and substitute nap/sleep. Been doing that off-and-on since the late 1960s. I will swipe our Stress Management postingts and share.

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