Maintaining Motivation: A Struggle for Many
Do you ever find yourself losing interest in something you know is good for you? Maybe you took a healthy living course and for a while you were gung ho to make changes in your life…but then the determination faded — and you found yourself going back to your old, bad health habits. If you do…you are definitely not alone. The key to continuing down the path towards better health and wellness (or whatever goal you have set for yourself) is to keep a positive mindset and to not allow yourself to get discouraged–even when you experience a setback. Not sure how to maintain your motivation? This article will discuss how you can easily stay motivated by following seven easy steps.
How to Stay Motivated
– Step 1 –
Be Proud of Yourself, Today
Before anything else, it is important to recognize all that you have already accomplished. Take a few minutes and really think about it and write them down (and do not sell yourself short!):
I am proud of myself for the following reasons:
1 – ______________________________
2 – ______________________________
3 – ______________________________
4 – ______________________________
5 – ______________________________
6 – ______________________________
7 – ______________________________
– Step 2 –
Make Simple Daily Goals
Even if you have already made great strides in the past few weeks and have already reached your personal health goals—maybe you are eating less salt, have started an exercise regimen, or you’ve cut down on smoking—that’s wonderful. But don’t stop now! Continue to make daily, small goals for yourself. As you know, the key is to make each goal realistic and achievable (by breaking them down into doable steps) so that you can look back and really get a sense of the progress you have made.
– Step 3 –
Put it on Paper
As you set each goal for yourself, be sure to write them down. As you make progress toward your goals, check them off, and if you do something that wasn’t a part of your plan, write that down too. We recommend investing in a small weekly planner or a nice journal and to use that as your Healthy Living Journal. Whenever you need some motivation, flip back to the previous weeks, look at what you’ve accomplished, and realize that you can do it.
– Step 4 –
Find People to Cheer You On
Everyone needs a cheering section to help stay motivated–someone who will give you a reason to keep going even when you can’t seem to find motivation from within. Try to find at least 3 people–a spouse, friend, a coworker–even someone from an online community. Ask them to give you encouragement and hold you accountable as you work to reach your goals. Call, text, or email them when you can’t muster up the determination to make healthy choices or when you feel down or feel like giving up. Sometimes all it takes is one supportive friend to get you back on track.
– Step 5 –
“Be the Tortoise”
We all know what happened with the Tortoise and the Hare (the tortoise won). This is because there is truth to the idiom—slow and steady does win the race. When it comes to healthy living (or reaching any personal goals), it’s not just about how fast you were able to go yesterday, or that you were able to accomplish a week’s worth of goals in two days; rather, the important thing is to continue down this journey steadily until you reach your goal. Remember: real change takes time, and the same applies to most things in life—especially your health. Be proud of yourself at the end of each day, and never stop pressing forward.
– Step 6 –
Be Kind to Yourself
There are going to be days where you will not know how to stay motivated, no matter how hard you try. Even if you find yourself being more like the speedy Hare rather than the steady Tortoise—perhaps you had a great start but eventually found yourself in a place where you felt like you’ve lost the race—it’s absolutely okay! If your goal is to live healthy and you slip up one weekend and scarf down four bags of potato chips, or you stop exercising for a month and realize you can’t even walk for half the duration you were at before—it’s okay! Don’t beat yourself up for it, and definitely do not stop trying. Everyone—even the most motivated and determined–has challenges, including failures. The important thing is to acknowledge it, forget it, and keep on going.
– Step 7 –
Celebrate Each & Every Day
This is probably the most important tip I can give you. Regardless of what kind of past you’ve lived or how you anticipate your future to be—regardless of your failures and successes—nothing is more valuable than the present moment. Simple moments—moments spent with loved ones, moments doing what you love, even mundane hours spent at home or work—never hesitate to pause and appreciate what you currently have. So go ahead and savor life’s simple pleasures…you won’t regret it.
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*The information presented in “How to Stay Motivated: 7 Steps to Success” can be found in Being Empowered for a Healthy Heart: A personal guide to taking control of your health while living with chronic conditions, by Phoebe Chi, MD, MPH.
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Want to keep these motivation tips handy for future reference?
Below is a printable handout with all this information on one sheet!
Categories: Health & Wellness, Health First
Yikes this is like reading a “Wellness Journal”…pretty clever ! I have daily ‘ intentions’ and being senior I don’t plan further than a week or three ahead. Music, being content and things in moderation seem to work for me. My little dog makes me laugh. Again , great site.
Those are all wonderful things! And thank you for reading. 🙂
You’re an angel Puppydoc, thank you for this, I am downloading your guide. I’ve lived with depression for many years. xo
It’s my pleasure, and I’m glad to be of help. Wishing you the best! 🙂
Thank you for the ideas …totally where I’m at right now. I so love the notebook. Gathering pens now.
Wonderful! Best of luck! 😃
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Reblogging this because it is one to remember and read again
Awesome approach! Oh, and we have three rescued cats, they’re coming around.
Awww, how neat! 🙂
Welcome back. Loving your new blog
Thank you, Mary! It’s good to be back. Good seeing you too. 🙂
Phoebe Chi (Puppydoc), thanks so much for the post.Really thank you! Keep writing.
My pleasure. Thank you for reading. 🙂
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Everything I needed to be reminded of. Thank you. 🙂
An essential read. God bless you.🙏
Hi Phoebe such a great post.From long time I am concentrating for a healthy lifestyle and I became successful too but in middle my motivation goes down .This post explains perfectly how to get motivated.
I started exploring your work its simply superb ..loving it .. .Keep going.Good luck 🙂
I’m happy you found this helpful. Thank you so much for reading! 🙂
You are welcome 🙂
Really this writeup is awesome.
Thank you for reading 🙂
Amazing post… staying motivated to your goal could get tough sometimes… these posts really help in keeping up the spirits high and stick to the goal😊
Thank you kindly, and thank you for reading. 🙂
Very much motivating with helpful tips.
Thank you for reading. 🙂
Amazing post..I am glad I got to read this one..very positive and motivating 😊
This is so good to read. Hello from overseas! I am a GP from Indonesia. Thanks for liking my blog page.
It’s good to meet you! Looking forward to reading more from you. 🙂
A beautiful post.
Thank you for reading 🙂
Phoebe is beautiful. Thanks for the follow I wish you were my doc 😉 😘
Inspiring ! Keep motivating ! Wishing you the best 🙂🙂
And the best to you as well! 🙂
Oh wise one! Nailed it! Cheers,H
Hehe. Thanks, Helen! 💙
Great post.very useful.
Thank you for reading. 🙂
Thanks so much! I love this — just what the doctor ordered…and here i have my own sweet poet doc answering my unspoken feelings and fears — Ok, will smile now and get moving and be motivated. 🙂
Aww your words warm my heart! I am happy to be here. Wishing you the best! 🙂
i had made a promise to do chanting for a month but somehow dropped it one day – because i was sick and now i feel so bad, i am not able to start again. Your message is such a sweet motivator – get up and get going with a smile. 🙂 Thank YOU! 🙂
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Very inspiring my sister! God bless!
The same to you, Wendell! 🙂